


The theory of love languages was first published by Gary Chapman, a relationship counselor and pastor. In that sense, it’s similar to another tool called The Five Love Languages. The best way to use Myers-Briggs® theory for relationships is to help you understand yourself and the person you’re with (and for them to understand you). A mutual willingness to understand each other and work on becoming a healthy version of your own type is a much better predictor of relationship success than what your personality types are. Intuitives should only date N-types), the reality is that two people of any personality type can make a relationship work if they’re willing to put in the effort. Even though lots of writers will recommend specific type combinations they say work best in relationships (e.g. Using Myers-Briggs® types as a guide for romance or even friendships is something I usually counsel people not to do. Have you ever wondered what your INFJ personality type can tell you about your relationships?
